Finding Independence From Your Parents

Dear ol’ Mom and Dad. They expect the best from us. They know what we’re capable of and want to see to it that we live to our fullest potentials. But along with this, can come a whole lot of nagging, questions, pressure, arguments, and dare I say, resentment. At the quarter life stage, when we’re flying the coop, getting on our feet, and taking aim at the world, it can be tricky to navigate these unfamiliar waters with our parents.

Speaking from my own experience, I am incredibly grateful for the lessons, love, and support that my parents have provided me with over the course of my childhood and adolescent years. Even now, they are an endless source of unconditional love and advice in many areas of my life. I am beyond thankful to have two people in my corner who have never questioned my path, given me grief about wanting a creative career, or imposed their ideas of the ‘right future’ on me. I know that this sets me apart from many people and so I just want to put it out there. The advice I’m giving here is for folks who are looking to gain independence from their parents— mine gave me independence in the most loving way possible and I’ve been relishing in it ever since.

For many young people, the transition into independence isn’t so smooth. Maybe they still support you financially or make a point of expressing their opinion about your every choice…